Showing posts with label hak suami isteri. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hak suami isteri. Show all posts

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Petua cara isteri untuk memikat suami

Selain ayat al-Quran, beberapa petua atau cara boleh dilakukan si isteri untuk memikat si suami, antaranya ialah:
  • Air mani suami banyak kegunaannya. Misalnya sapu pada pusat, sapu searah kemudian selawat 3x. Insya-Allah suami sentiasa mengingati kita walau di mana jua suami pergi.
  • Air mani juga boleh menegang dan memengkalkan payudara dan pungung. Caranya, sapu air mani pada payudara dan punggung, urut menghala ke atas. Lebih elok sekiranya tangan suami yang mengurut, ia lebih berkesan dan meningkatkan kemesraan.
  • Air mani juga boleh di sapu pada muka sebagai penyeri.
  • Manjakani memang diketahui berkhasiat terutama dalam perhubungan suami isteri. Untuk mengembalikan tempat sulit seperti anak dara, ambil segenggam manjakani lalu direbus seketika. kemudian kangkang kaki dan biarkan wap air rebusan tadi naik pada bahagian sulit. Amalkan 2x seminggu.
  • Juga boleh gunakan serbuk teh direbus bersama daun pandan supaya lebih wangi. Guna cara yang sama seperti air rebusan manjakani

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Thursday, February 21, 2013

Because Your Wife DOES NOT WORK ?

A husband complains for feeling tired... tired and tired.... and wants his wife help him on earning money by also working, because so far he thinks that his wife is 'not working'.

Following are Question and Answer between The Husband (H) and The Psychologist (P):

P : What do you for a living Mr. Bandy?
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.

P : Your Wife ?
H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.

P : Who make breakfast for your family in the morning?
H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.

P : At what time your wife wake up for making breakfast?
H : She wakes up at around 5am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.

P : How do your kids go to school?
H : My wife take them to school, because she doesn't work.

P : After taking kids to school, what does she do?
H : She goes to the market, then go back home for cooking and laundrying clothes. You know, she doesn't work.

P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.

P : What does your wife do then?
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.

From the story above, who do you think work more???

The daily rounities of your wives commence from early morning to late at night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!

Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!

Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all us to understand and appreciate each others roles. Understanding and Appreciating each other will make each person feel Happy.

Remember also that our Prophet (SallAllaahu 'Alayhi Wa Sallam) used to help his wives on house working:

It is narrated on the authority of Abu Hurayrah (radiyAllaahu 'anhu) that he said: I asked 'Aa`ishah (radiyAllaahu 'anha) what the Messenger of Allah (SallAllaahu 'Alayhi Wa Sallam) used to do in the house. She said: ► "He used to help with the housework and when it was time to pray he would leave for the prayer " [Al-Bukhari: 676]


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Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Apa suami perlu lakukan apabila isteri berleter


Mengikut kajian, sudah menjadi naluri wanita perlu bercakap banyak. Secara purata mereka mengeluarkan 8,000 perkataan sehari sementara lelaki hanya 2,000 perkataan sehari dikeluarkan secara vokal dan kadangkala kurang dari itu. Wanita bercakap banyak dan mahu orang lain mendengarnya sebaliknya lelaki bercakap sedikit kerana mereka mahu ketenangan.
Rupanya dari dulu wanita lumrahnya memang begitu.. 
(https://www.facebook.com/islamicparentingnetwork.net?ref=stream)



Umar Mencontohi Kesabaran Rasulullah SAW Terhadap Leteran Isteri

Seorang lelaki datang ke rumah Umar bagi mengadu perihal isterinya yang suka berleter. Tatkala sampai, dia mendengar Umar sedang dileteri isterinya. Umar tidak menjawab sepatah pun. Lelaki itu beredar sambil berkata, “Kalau beginilah keadaan Umar, seorang Amirul Mukminin yang selalu keras dan tegas, maka bagaimana pula dengan aku?”

Selepas itu Umar keluar dari rumahnya lalu terlihat lelaki tadi beredar. Umar memanggilnya dan bertanya tujuan kedatangannya. Lelaki itu berkata, “Wahai Amirul mukminin,tujuan kedatanganku adalah untuk mengadu berkenaan perangai buruk isteriku yang suka berleter. Tadi aku baru sahaja mendengar isterimu juga begitu. Lalu aku berkata kepada diriku, kalau begini keadaan Amirulmukminin dengan isterinya, maka bagaimana dengan aku?”

Umarpun berkata kepadanya, “Wahai saudaraku! Sesungguhnya aku bersabar mendengar leterannya kerana dia mempunyai hak ke atasku. Sesungguhnya dia memasak makanan untukku, mengadun roti untukku, membasuh pakaianku dan menyusui anakku, padahal semua itu tidak diwajibkan ke atasnya. Dia juga menenangkan hatiku daripada melakukan perbuatan yang haram (zina). Sebab itulah aku bersabar dengan karenahnya.”

Lelaki itu menjawab, “Wahai Amirulmukminin, demikian jugalah isteriku.”

Umar berkata, “Maka bersabarlah wahai saudaraku. Sesungguhnya karenahnya tidak lama. Hanya seketika sahaja.”

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